How To Get Published: Listen to your F*%$ing Editors!

Jesus Christ I need to work on my Photoshop Skills...

Jesus Christ I need to work on my Photoshop Skills…

I have a lot of friends who call themselves “writers” but who don’t actually ever publish anything. They are talented, but they have a hard time finding work, and are always amazed by how much steady work I get because I’m not even a full-time writer.

“You must have awesome editors,” they tell me. “Editors are so annoying though. I hate working with them. They make me change my entire piece and then it doesn’t feel like it’s my own. I just want someone who is going to publish my stuff the first time I send it to them.”

Ah. There’s the problem.

People, you need to start listening to your f*%$ing editors. And here’s why:

1.  They know what they are doing

Your editors weren’t people just picked out of a hat by some random CEO – they are editors because they have experience. Some might have studied journalism, some might have just worked with the website/publication for a really long time. Regardless, their job is to make your stuff look good. And they probably do know better than you, because they’ve been doing this for a while.

2.  They have to abide by certain guidelines too

Matador Network has a style they like their articles to follow because that’s what makes the site unique. Thus, you can’t just write whatever way you want, if you hope to be published by them. A good editor will take time to steer you in the right direction and help you create a piece worth posting, that fits with the ethos of the company. Otherwise, what’s to stop them from publishing anything from anyone?

3.  They make suggestions because they WANT to publish you

An editor has no problem telling you if the piece you submit is not totally in line with the types of things their website/publications post. That doesn’t mean you’re a bad writer, it just means you have to write the kinds of things they want to read. Lots of times I’ll pitch an idea or send a draft to my editors, and they’ll send feedback that might take the piece to a totally different level. “Write it in the style of…” or “Take this part out and elaborate on this more…” means that they trust you to take your initial concept and make it publishable through their suggestions.

4.  They will want to work with you more if you are willing to work with them

The best thing you can do to advance your writing career is show an editor you are capable of following directions. To them, complacent writers mean less time back and forth discussing edits because you aren’t constantly fighting with them to “get your way.” It means you are a hard worker and are dedicated to the site you are writing for (especially if you hand stuff in on time).

“But what about my ‘voice’? I don’t want to compromise myself for someone else’s benefit.” Okay sure, I get that. Here’s a little secret through: publishing is about trust. Your editors have to trust that you’ll give them things they want to publish. You have to trust that your editors are helping to make your work look amazing. Once that relationship is established, things get easier; most times you’ll start out writing one way but then develop your own voice in the style they are looking for.

If that is still dissatisfying to you, ask yourself: why am I writing for them? You should want to work with websites/publications that you care about, or at least can tolerate enough to get a paycheck. If you are butting heads on a scathing level, move on. There are plenty of publications out there and you’ll find the right one sooner than you think.

How do you deal with editors? Any other tactics you can advise hopeful writers to take into consideration?

My Latest for Travel Fashion Girl: Laser Hair Removal for Travelers

My latest article on Travel Fashion Girl

My latest article on Travel Fashion Girl

I’ve been following Travel Fashion Girl for quite some time. I’ve always wanted to create a site dedicated to travel and fashion, but Alex beat me to the punch! We have been talking about collaborating for quite some time on various subjects, so expect to see more of my posts on her fabulous site, dedicated to everything from what to pack by country, to budget versus luxury travel fashion, and even interviews with famous travel bloggers on how to travel without looking like a pile of garbage!

My first post on her site deals with laser hair removal. I am a HUGE fan of this process because A) I am a naturally hairy gal and B) shaving while traveling is a HUGE PAIN IN THE ASS. For reals yo, if you’re a woman you know it’s either spend fifteen minutes (sometimes a day) shaving your bod, or go caveman style and embrace the furriness.

But LHR is incredibly beneficial for male and female travelers alike. It’s effective, it doesn’t have to be expensive, and most of all, it is one less thing to worry about while traveling.

According to the American Academy of Dermatology, “Laser devices send specific concentrated beams of light through the skin that are absorbed by the melanin (dark) pigment present in the hair follicle shafts. Because hair grows in cycles, repeated treatments are necessary to destroy the hair follicles.” You can find more information online and always read reviews before purchasing a package, to ensure the laser clinic or dermatologist is a good fit for you.

Read up on why I think laser hair removal is the best thing for travelers since the invention of the sarong:

Permanent Hair Removal for Women – Toss the razor!

Will Indie Revolutionize RTW Travel?

My fantasy RTW trip - is it doable?

My fantasy RTW trip – is it doable?

BootsnAll recently helped launch a very exciting travel website entitled Indie, aimed at helping travel folks easily put together their dream of traveling around the world. With this program, one can plot out their RTW trip and get a nice, quick price quote for what their RTW trip will potentially cost them (prices are for airfare only, however you can plot out your land travel as well to get a better idea of how your trip will work. The land travel is not factored into the final price though).

Does it make it easy to create a RTW trip? Sure does! I love being able to map out where I want to go and how I’ll get there. Except there are a few problems…

I tried mapping out a few potential places based on location proximity. I hate flying as it is and like to be on a plane for as little amount of time as possible, so I tried to map out a route with airports relatively close to each other. The results are not so ideal. When I wanted to go from Mexico City to Bogota, Columbia – pretty close, as far as I could see – I’d have to fly from Mexico City, back to New York (my initial launch pad), then from New York to Bogota. Not only did I increase the amount of time on a plane, but I’m flying northeast to fly back southwest.

That’s about twice the gasoline emissions sent into the air for a trip that should be a one-stop shot. I have to tinker around with Indie’s site a little more. I do like that they include a section of successful RTW itineraries, which I’m going to browse, because maybe I’m setting my sights too high. But when you can book a 25-stop RTW trip in one shot, what’s to stop be from experimenting a bit?

I also wanted to fly from Brazil to Namibia, being that they are literally “across the pond” from each other. No dice. It would require me to fly from Rio, to New York, New York to Johannesburg, then Joburg to Namibia. A totally convoluted route to reach somewhere that, according to what I’d plotted out, seems like a straight shot. Not to mention all of the gasoline emissions from flying back, and forth, and back again.

What gives?

Anyone know why this would be the case? Surely there are people who fly from Rio to Namibia who don’t have to deal with all of this crazy international hullabaloo. Does it have to do with visas/being an American citizen, and having to travel through an American hub? Maybe it’s just the flights that come onto the radar at the time I search, or maybe that’s just how the airline industry works.

Or maybe I’m just doing it wrong. I’m not planning on doing a RTW trip for some time, but when I do, I want it to be as easy as possible. Travel dudes, help me out!

Sign up for your own account on Indie here.  Hopefully you have better luck than I!

PS just found this post on BootsnAll’s site: 5 Affordable Round the World Routes.  I will definitely keep this in mind for planning my own trip!

Katka’s Holiday Gift Picks – For Lady Travelers

Katka's Holiday Gift Picks - Ladies
Katka’s Holiday Gift Picks – Ladies by katkatravels
Happy holidays everyone!  If you’re like me, you’ve left your holiday shopping until the last minute.  For the rest of this week, I’ll showcase my top gift picks for travelers of all types.  Happy shopping!
  1. Cavallini Mini Notebooks: I saw these at the Museum of Fine Arts in Boston and absolutely HAD to have them.  They are small enough to stash in your purse or clutch so no travel moment goes unrecorded.  I love their vintage style, and are pretty enough to store on a shelf later.
  2. Olympus PEN Mini E-PM1: This compact system DSLR is perfect for photographers looking to transition from their point-and-shoots to something more advanced.  The lenses are small and interchangeable and the features are very user-friendly.  The bodies also come in super fun colors (mine is a soft, rosy pink!).  No bulky camera bag required, you will be amazed by the size of this thing.
  3. North Face Fleece: At first I was averse to North Face products – thought they were more fashion than function.  Now I’m barely seen without my North Face zip-up hoodie, perfect for layering and super warm/comfy.
  4. Lunch Crock Pot: Let’s face it – leftovers just don’t taste as good heated up in the microwave.  Behold, the lunch crock! Plug it in to an outlet and your food heats up like it was freshly cooked.  Perfect for picking up soups or meals at the local market, to be eaten later.  Compact enough to pack in your luggage and safe to use in your hotel or hostel.
  5. On-Location Candle: Can’t travel this holiday season?  Bring the scents of your favorite places to you!  Bath and Body Works recently came out with a series of candles inspired by their favorite vacation spots.  There’s tea and lemon for London, and a spicy, musk-scent for Morocco.  And who doesn’t like the idea of cocktails and coconuts on a cold, winter night?
  6. Vapur Element water bottle: I absolutely adore this water bottle, which rolls up compactly once empty.  Eco-friendly, takes up no space and ensures you have clean water whenever you need.

Newest Article for Matador Network: How to celebrate Thanksgiving in Slovakia


As travelers, it’s easy for us to forget that not every country celebrates Thanksgiving.  It’s even easier for us to forget that not all countries sell frozen turkeys.  Recently, I wrote an article for Matador Network on my improvised Thanksgiving meal that occurred in Slovakia in 2008.  That was probably the best Thanksgiving I ever had and it was a really special memory.  Check it out!

Figure out a menu that will show your new Slovak friends how Thanksgiving is your most favorite holiday in the world. Feel slightly intimidated that many Slovaks make their meals from scratch, so obviously instant mashed potatoes will not do (not that they really exist in Slovakia…). The trepidation wears off as you recall that part of Thanksgiving’s charm is having an excuse to eat everything in sight.

How to celebrate Thanksgiving in Slovakia